Not every “I love you” is from God. Sometimes the people who get closest to us are the ones sent to tear us down. In this powerful message, we explore what the Bible says about fake affection, spiritual manipulation, and discerning the difference between real love and subtle sabotage. If you’ve ever been hurt by someone who claimed to care for you—this message will open your eyes, strengthen your heart, and lead you back to God’s protection. Learn how to guard your heart without becoming hardened and how to let God expose what’s hidden in the dark. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction – When love is fake, but the damage is real 02:25 Part 1. Not Everyone Who Says “I Love You” Is from God. 07:06 Part 2. The Hidden Motives Behind Fake Affection. 11:33 Part 3. Discernment Is a Spiritual Gift—Not a Personality Trait. 16:10 Part 4. Signs You’re Dealing with Someone Sent to Tear You Down. 21:23 Part 5. When It Hurts—But God Allowed It. 25:47 Part 6. How to Guard Your Heart Without Becoming Hardened. 30:44 Part 7. Forgive the Betrayer—but Learn the Lesson. 35:16 Part 8. God Will Reveal What’s Hidden—If You Ask. 39:51 Conclusion – You’re not defined by betrayal—God is still writing your story Thank you for watching! Be sure to check out our other videos for more wisdom. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5piZVep-kOI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vpj2ODtsTZU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E3Ca8ca-ghA #biblicaldiscernment #spiritualwarfare #christianteachings #fakefriends #guardyourheart #betrayalhealing #godsees #jesuslovesyou #wisdomfromgod #forgiveness #christiantruth #wolvesinsheepsclothing #discernment #biblestudy #toxicrelationships #christianencouragement #truthinlove #boundaries #holybible #spiritualabuse #manipulation #christianlife #healingfromhurt #jesusheals #spiritualgrowth